The Patch

It’s almost travel time, and if you’ve heard about our last visit to Switzerland at all, you may have heard about the miserable trip to get there. I have flown quite a bit and often feel ill, but that trip was by far The Worst. And if you understand how the migraine, the motion sickness, and the nausea combined to make me use up pretty much all the airsickness bags in my section of the plane, you might understand that while I until then I had never thought that would keep me from travelling, I was beginning to reconsider. Enter The Patch. IMG_9480 In December, during minor medical procedure, the nurse asked if I have trouble with motion sickness or nausea and would I like a patch? A what? The patch was a dime-sized transdermal patch that they stuck behind my ear to counteract feelings of nausea. It worked like a charm and when I had my check-up this year, I begged asked my doctor if he could prescribe some more of these snazzy things. He could! He did! More than enough, and boy, do I feel like a woman with money in the bank. Every time I think of the upcoming voyage, I recall with a song in my heart, “I have a Patch!” Sometimes the song doesn’t stay in my heart, and I get excited all over again and go about showing off my patch to members of the family. “Have I shown you my Patch?” I ask with a goofy smile. “Yes, Mom. At least 53 times.” And then they look at me as if I were talking of illicit drugs or something. They look at me as if they weren’t there! As if they didn’t remember! They were there, and I call the terrified looks on their faces. How can we get mom to stop wretching long enough to get her off this plane? Will we be left at the mercy of the airplane people? It was not good, and they would do well to remember and rejoice, because this time, Mama will be skipping off the plane wearing her Patch.

Because I need lots of closure

IMG_9485 Thursday, after we’d finally gotten everything else out of the house, after I’d mopped my way out of the house, after the van was loaded up and everyone else had left, I got out and took pictures of our happy little house. It doesn’t really fit us so well anymore, like a dress that one of the girls might have worn as a baby, but I love it. We have so many happy memories of life here, and somehow as I took the picture, a melodramatic thought crossed my mind, Maybe someday I’ll look back at this photo and think, “Ah, those were the simpler, happy times!” Boo hoo hoo. Mostly I think it was the combination of stress, bad eating and weariness. I think that a house is a house and wherever we end up we will make more happy memories. But no matter what, this is the house I brought three babies home to, where I watched them all grow up, where we welcomed so many friends, where there was so much singing and crying and love. I wrote recently about Orcas and a sense of place. This place has a sense of place, too. Goodbye, Little House, or maybe just See you later.

All My Earthly Possessions

…are here in this storage unit. IMG_9408 This morning, several nice friends and relations came and loaded our furniture into the U-Haul and carted it all to the storage place. And we left it there. It’s an odd feeling. I will not say which storage place or what the number is just in case you are a naughty person posing as a nice blog reader and want to go and swipe our stuff (the Legos are in the green drawers.) But actually, even if you were, we don’t really have that great of stuff. It’s kind of thrift-shoppy. Thinking about it, I realize that probably the one thing that I would be really sorry to have anything happen to is the box of happy little pictures that my kids have drawn over the years. I’m not sure whether that makes me feel really happy or that I need to get some better stuff.  And actually, not all my earthly possessions are there. There’s a lot more here, waiting to be packed better: IMG_9413

What We Did With Our Weekend

Saturday we had another garage sale with our friends. Aside from getting money from purgings and visiting with all the neighbors, one of my favorite things about garage sales is that you are doing something without doing too much. What I mean is that besides talking with people and trying to help them see the benefits of buying your old carpet or chocolate fountain, there is usually plenty of time to just sit in the sun (and we had some!) and hang out waiting for more customers.With the exception of Zeus who is such a busy bee that he can’t sit still but instead did lots of weeding on the garage sale fringes, we sat about and chatted. While chatting, I asked my friend Kerry if her daughter would like some toy pots and pans to play with. (Hermes isn’t much of a toy cook.) Because Holly’s mother is an outstanding cook, it was ironic to find out Holly didn’t yet have a toy kitchen. (well, okay, she’s only two!) The mamas had a stroke of inspiration, and then we handed execution off to our skilled eldest children. Here is the finished result. DSCN3515 and the happy recipient-now she can cook just like mama!DSCN3502 This is also an opportunity to introduce the fabulous new blog of Artemis– she wrote a great post about making the stove. Her blog is currently private, so if you are interested in following it, leave me a comment with your email address. You will be able to read about our travel adventures from her perspective as well.Sunday we drove up to Bellingham to a graduation/farewell party with my aunt and uncle and all my cousins. We haven’t had that many of us all together in….well…, a COON’s age! It was delightful to catch up on each other’s lives in glorious afternoon sunshine, and to be reminded, as we head off to adventures and the enjoyment of family far away, of the family ties that hold onto us here.DSCN3626 My sister Julie graduates this week with a B.A. degree and teaching certificate in special education after several years of hard work and juggling being a mama and a college student. As an observer, I think that’s got to be one of the hardest combinations. She’s been an inspiration to her family and mine, my daughters especially. We are all SO proud of her!